Current:Home > ContactToday's Hoda Kotb Shares Deeply Personal Response to Being Mom-Shamed -CapitalCourse
Today's Hoda Kotb Shares Deeply Personal Response to Being Mom-Shamed
View
Date:2025-04-15 17:25:07
Hoda Kotb is opening up about a horrific piece of hate mail she once received.
The Today co-anchor, who is mom to daughters Haley, 6, and Hope, 3, recently recalled receiving a handwritten note at her home criticizing her for starting a family later in life.
"I opened the letter and it was something along the lines of, 'How dare you bring a child into this world at your age? Don't you know what you're doing to that child?' Like, it went on and on," Hoda, 58, recalled on the NBC morning show. "It took my breath away because that actually was my ouch. I was scared. Like, is this something that is smart for me to do? Am I helping or am I going to ultimately be harming? Like, I've thought about that."
Hoda, who adopted Haley and Hope with now-ex Joel Schiffman and co-parents them with him, continued, "And when I read it, I thought, someone took a pen and sat at a table and put it and wrote that down and got a stamp and mailed it. Like, went to all that trouble to say that to me."
She explained that the letter made her reflect on her experience with losing a parent following the death of her dad, Abdel Kader Kotb, in 1981 when she was in college.
"I remember thinking, we have our parents for a period of time," Hoda noted. "I know the foundation he left. I know it was worth every second of that time. So I thought about that too. It can hit you in a place where you're the most vulnerable."
Since getting candid about that mom-shaming letter, the journalist has received a slew of supportive messages on the social media.
"That's just shameful!" one person wrote on Today With Hoda & Jenna's Instagram page about the letter author. "You're doing a great job with your precious babies and no one knows how much time any of us have."
Another user commented, "It's better to be cared for and loved for any amount of time than to never be loved at all."
Since adopting Haley in 2017, Hoda has often opened up about her parenting journey on Today.
Earlier this year, she took some time off from the show to care for Hope after she was hospitalized for an undisclosed health issue. In March, just after the journalist returned to work, she thanked fans for their support.
"Thank you …for all of your beautiful words and prayers," she wrote on Instagram. "I have read them all. You have no idea how much it means to me and my family. I am so profoundly touched."
(E! and NBC are part of the NBCUniversal family.)
For the latest breaking news updates, click here to download the E! News AppveryGood! (9712)
Related
- A Mississippi company is sentenced for mislabeling cheap seafood as premium local fish
- Judge quickly denies request to discard $38 million verdict in New Hampshire youth center abuse case
- Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas' Youngest Daughter's Name Revealed
- This, too, could pass: Christian group’s rule keeping beaches closed on Sunday mornings may end
- A South Texas lawmaker’s 15
- Shooting of Slovak Prime Minister Robert Fico sends shockwaves across Europe
- Takeaways from the AP’s investigation into how US prisoners are hurt or killed on the job
- Social Security's 2025 COLA estimate inches up but Medicare Part B premium may wipe it out
- DeepSeek: Did a little known Chinese startup cause a 'Sputnik moment' for AI?
- Biden’s upcoming graduation speech roils Morehouse College, a center of Black politics and culture
Ranking
- Most popular books of the week: See what topped USA TODAY's bestselling books list
- Save Up to 70% on Gap Factory's Already Reduced Styles, Including $59 Vegan Leather Leggings for $11
- 'Bridgerton' returns for Season 3: How to watch romance between Colin and Penelope
- Soothe Sore Muscles With These Post-Workout Recovery Tools
- Nearly 400 USAID contract employees laid off in wake of Trump's 'stop work' order
- Muth, 2024 Preakness favorite trained by Bob Baffert, scratched from Saturday's race
- WATCH: 'Nimble' the dog wins Westminster Masters Agility Championship with blazing run
- Jennifer Hudson reflects on two decades of success, new season of talk show
Recommendation
Residents worried after ceiling cracks appear following reroofing works at Jalan Tenaga HDB blocks
Real Housewives' Brynn Whitfield Shares Hacks To Nail the Date, Get a Second Date & Get Engaged
Who is playing in NFL Monday Night Football? Here's the complete 2024 MNF schedule
Meta to shut down Workplace app for business
Retirement planning: 3 crucial moves everyone should make before 2025
King of walks: 25-year-old Juan Soto breaks Mickey Mantle record
Eminem 'eulogized' in faux-obituary in Detroit Free Press ahead 'The Death of Slim Shady'
Delaware police exchange gunfire with woman in police chase through 2 states that ends in her death